Honestly I'm not a fan of Sir Chief and Maya neither I'm watching every episode of their love story. But I caught a glimpse photo of their fairytale wedding. And I caught myself saying wow! That girl must be really special and we would want to be treated the same way.
We are living in this world where everything must be fast, everyone seems to be all in a hurry in terms of food, work, I myself is guilty for that, and also in love. I remember reading a verse in the bible saying do not awaken love until its the right time. Im not an exception for having that. We all have our puppy loves, first loves, short term and long term relationships that we all fall in that trap of hurrying everything especially for love. How could we have that decency of a wedding if we ourselves would give up the things we could have treasured until our wedding day.
The world keeps on telling us to give everything for love coz its worth it. Its like losing part of ourselves and expecting something in return. Some have a relationship at an early age because of peer pressure without knowing its real purpose, knowing the end goal of being in a commitment. Some of us felt the need for love without knowing that Jesus have already shown His undying love for us in the cross. True love is where someone is ready to give up their life for us. And that is something we can just find in our recyclable worldy relationships today.
Everyone of us wants to have that fairytale wedding especially for ladies but we forget that we are special, we need respect, we need time, and for us to have that we must be treated with respect. Its not about having an extravagant wedding. All ladies want to have a wedding in the altar with vows, simple as it is. Its not about having a partner who has all the money in the world to show off but rather a person who is dedicated to be there for you til the end, who will listen to you as a friend, comfort you when you needed it the most, protect you at any cost. That's what everyone of us deserves isnt? To start, giving yourself respect would yield the same thing from other people. Likewise, you don't do anything you want others to do to you. Everything that anyone gets too fast loses its likeness after a few days.
So ladies, why lower your standards? We dont aim to please people. We aim to please our Lord. And if He says there's someone for us who give that magical wedding then better believe it. Its not yet too late. Our God keeps His promises to His daughters. And we're one of them! ;D
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